Reflections...

I was reading my friend's blog and she posted this entry..

Read in a book e other day and I think it is very very true.
“人不到死亡的那前一刻，永远不会知道谁是他(她)这一生的最爱”

Hmm... I thought it was very true too. It's so typical for humans to know what is lost only after they've lost it. 人总是要等到失去后才懂得珍惜... 要尝试错过的滋味才知道什么是可惜...

Not everything can be held back when things go wrong isn't it. Sometimes we are so empowered by the drive to strive for material and living needs that alot of things are distancing away.

Like the need to show some love for the people around them, showing them some encouragement at times so that they can find life meaningful.. Not taking them for granted, sometimes things that are not said is not insignificant at all. People hug their bf/gf, but why won't they hug their parents?

We see our friends on msn, or when we're bored, we would send msg "How are you doing? How's your day?". But why don't we ask our close ones at home the same thing?

When my dad comes home from work I'd say "老爸，吃饭了。".. And he would always jokingly say "为什么这样好死?" ..亲爱的老爸，对你好不是应为有企图 ok.. =(

When I work till the end of the day and parents come to fetch their child, I like it when parents bothered to hug their child and ask how's their day and stuff. I thought that was quite sweet, like "You bothered about me, you want to know how am I." I'd have smiled no matter how tired I am if anyone does that for me.

I always tell my sis off for not spending enough time at home and she finds me a nag. =( ... She is out 24/7, and it's an EXTREME miracle, I repeat, A VERY RARE EXTREME miracle if you find her at home FREE the whole day - she's forever busy. I've always declared my Sundays occupied 'cos it's for my family... hee..

Care and concern doesn't have to be treated as an ebarrassment right.. Why wait when you could. Hmm.. my sis asked me what I want for my b'dae, I think if she could give me a great big hug, that's what I want... =)

So.. 是时候反省了吧...

Reflections...